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Kol Nidre - Forgiveness

10/16/2024 04:26:47 PM

Oct16

Rabbi Ilana Goldhaber-Gordon

My family is still in shloshim, the thirty-day period of mourning. My father-in-law died 17 days ago. His name was Fred Goldhaber.   Of course in the two weeks since his death, there has been a lot of reminiscing. One theme kept emerging - Fred never spoke badly of anyone. He wasn’t a pushover. I can remember very clearly, at various times, his standing up for himself, or for his family. But he did not take people’s bad behavior...Read more...

Rosh Hashanah Day 2 - War Sirens

10/16/2024 04:24:31 PM

Oct16

Rabbi Ilana Goldhaber-Gordon

When I was 18 years old, I got to spend a gap year in Jerusalem, studying at an Orthodox women’s yeshiva. It was 1990, the year Sadam Hussein invaded Kuwait.    In January, the United States led a coalition of 42 countries invading Iraq. It was a devastating war for everyone on the ground.    In the midst of that violence, Saddam began lobbing missiles at Israel. Israel had nothing to do with the conflict, was not part...Read more...

Re'eh - The Power of Hope

10/16/2024 04:19:56 PM

Oct16

Rabbi Ilana Goldhaber-Gordon

At the end of a big Jewish community event last fall - the Z3 conference - all of us community rabbis were invited up on the stage to lead the singing of Hatikvah, Israel’s national anthem. 

Hatikvah, as many of you know, means “the hope”. The song describes the two thousand year-old hope of the Jewish people, that someday we would return to our homeland. 

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Shoftim – Write a Torah

09/26/2024 09:45:15 AM

Sep26

Rabbi Nat Ezray

Shoftim – Write a Torah

Charles Ramsey was the Chief of Police in Washington DC from 1998 – 2007.  Listen to his words: “Policing is often referred to as a job or a profession.  In reality, it is much more. Policing is a calling. It is a pledge to dedicate our professional lives to serving other people and protecting those things our citizens hold...Read more...

Ki Tavo – Love the Ger

09/26/2024 09:44:04 AM

Sep26

Rabbi Nat Ezray

Ki Tavo – Love the Ger

*Ger means stranger/foreigner

I have a distinct memory from when I was around nine or ten and would attend Yom Kippur services.  We came to that pages-long prayer Al Chet, where we enumerated all the ways we missed the mark in the past...Read more...

Pinchas - The Broken Vav

07/30/2024 09:11:20 AM

Jul30

Rabbi Nat Ezray

Pinchas - The Broken Vav

Peace is fragile.  It is difficult to achieve and maintain. Through a subtle detail – a broken vav - our Torah portion drives this point home.

Before we can get to the detail, we have to know the back story. At the end of last week’s portion, we learn that a plague had broken out because the Israelites...Read more...

Leah Ezray – Eulogy

07/23/2024 12:30:41 PM

Jul23

Rabbi Nat Ezray

               I adored my mom.  She was fun and full of life.  She was kind.  She was present.  She was grateful for anything and everything someone did for her. She lived life with genuine love that lifted me, and everyone who knew her, up. She let me know that she admired and respected me. I am heartbroken.

There is a line in the Eshet Chayil...Read more...

Bechukotai – Humility

06/28/2024 02:28:13 PM

Jun28

Rabbi Nat Ezray

Bechukotai – Humility

Frank Bruni is a well-known writer who also teaches journalism at Duke University.  He wrote a powerful column entitled The Most Important Lessons Aren’t on the Syllabus where he talks about behavior he expects from his students.  These lessons wisely speak to our broader society at this moment in history.

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Naso – The Power of Blessing

06/28/2024 02:26:26 PM

Jun28

Rabbi Nat Ezray

Naso – The Power of Blessing

What is the greatest gift a parent can give their child?  The knowledge that they are loved.  And what is the greatest gift a child can give a parent?  The knowledge that they know they are loved.  I know that many of us finds ways to say, “I love you” to our children all of the time, but what if we had a ritual...Read more...

Acharei Mot – Put it on the Goat

06/28/2024 02:24:24 PM

Jun28

Rabbi Nat Ezray

Acharei Mot – Put it on the Goat

In my class on giving sermons in rabbinical school, we were told to be able to summarize our sermons in a sentence.  Here is today’s sentence: Put all your wrongdoing on the goat and let them go.  Send it into the wilderness!

That is the take away our Bat Mitzvah, Eva, and many others learn...Read more...

Chol HaMoed – Matzah Tastes Different this Year

06/28/2024 02:21:40 PM

Jun28

Rabbi Nat Ezray

Chol HaMoed – Matzah Tastes Different this Year

Matzah and Passover have felt different this year.  Their meanings resonate in ways I had not experienced in the past. The themes of the Seder and the symbolism of matzah are so real! As our Bar Mitzvah Noah shared, matzah has multiple meanings and each one speaks to our moment: As we say “We are slaves,” we...Read more...

Vayechi - Looking Back and Forward

01/29/2024 04:41:40 PM

Jan29

Rabbi Nat Ezray

 

Vayechi - Looking Back and Forward

As we wish one another Happy New Year, we reflect on how different the secular New Year is from the Jewish New Year.  Think about the greetings – there is a big difference between “Happy New Year” – which is about an emotion, and “Shana Tovah” which means a Good New Year and is about behavior.  For...Read more...

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